Entries by Mary Lambrecht

When Bereavement and Holidays Walk Together

By Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT The writer of the book Ecclesiastes states: “there is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven” (3:1).  The context and feelings around bereavement and holidays suggest that they should be opposite or separate seasons– sadness and merriment. This very paradox is represented in Ecclesiastes 3:4:  a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.”  Sometimes families experience the challenge of simultaneously facing these two seasons of life. Holidays also tend to reinforce the various roles that family members play.  For example […]

A Christmas Sabbath

By Mary Lambrecht, M.S. LMFT Now there were in the same country shepherds living out in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night.  And behold, an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were greatly afraid.  Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people…a Savior who is Christ the Lord.” (Luke 2 :8-11). This familiar Christmas scripture passage has consistently conveyed a message of the ultimate hope and joy […]